Hello Friend, you know how we do it right? We only discuss sensitive matters at night 😉. It is not gossip 😒.
- The Users
They are only interested in you to the extent that they can use you, they come around only when they need help, they are not there to help you in your own time of need or they help you for a price. They exploit you for selfish gain in the workplace, undermine the principles of trust, collaboration, and mutual respect essential for a healthy work environment. They take credit for your work, manipulate your for personal advancement. Some of their traits include, overly competitive, lack of genuine connection, manipulative behaviour, lack of empathy and unwillingness to collaborate.
2. The Complainers
The steal your peace and joy by criticizing and complaining about everything you do, they are usually never satisfied with the effort you put into work, your results are just never appreciated and your acts of kindness and effort are overlooked. You should try as much as possible to stay away from such people because most of the time, you are not the reason for their constant complaints, they just transfer aggression to you. They are characterized by frequent negativity, constant criticism, repetitive complaints, etc.
3. The blamers
These ones are the masters of everything and never do anything wrong in their own eyes. They are too perfect for you and you need to avoid them.
They never take responsibility for anything even when it is glaring that they are at fault. They are usually fuelled by a very large ego and a desire to be right all the time. They are characterized by a finger-pointing mentality, lack of accountability, they use negative languages and more.
4. The Competitors
These ones would never let you do better then them. To them it is always a game and when push comes to shove, they will leave you for dead because they want to win. The sad part about this is that they will intentionally try to pull you down when they see that you are starting to do a little better than they are. They would rather not support you even in their best moods.
These 4 categories of people are everywhere around our lives, you need to notice them and detach yourself, healthy competition is good but these people are not supposed to be friends. Friends don’t compete so be wise and draw the line against competitors.
This is all I have got for you today, until next time.
Cheers
